Just Married (The Early Years & the World of Work)
Getting married while you and your new husband are still
students means that you keep working even after marriage...
I had already graduated from BYU, but was theoretically in a Master’s
Program (actually the MRS program) and
had a job as grad student teaching assistant...I taught two sections of
freshman English. What were they thinking? I looked very young...I was
very young...but I guess most of my students were at least five years
younger....Harvey Hulme was one of my students! I made $200/month. That was our
total income...John worked hard in the summer but never during the school year.
Rent was $80/month and I tried to spend no more than
$20/week on food. I can remember adding more pasta to a macaroni/tuna salad to
make it last for one more meal. Although gas was only .25/gallon, we
struggled a bit to fill the tank of John's 59 Ford
...even though John’s cousin owned the Gas n Go
on 4th west. Fortunately, as an English major grad student, I was given a free
dictionary by each of the publishing companies...which meant I had 8 or 10 of
them. When we ran out of money for milk or gas, I would sell one back to the
bookstore for $7 or $8...what riches!
The first summer after we got married we came back to San
Jose...no, we didn’t live with my parents...we house-sat for the Joe and
Pauline Pace family...the people who had the bomb shelter that John had lived
in. They were on a trip to Europe so we had their nice home on University Ave
all to ourselves. Of course our summer jobs started again too...John with his
daytime construction job and nighttime fork lift driving at the cannery...and I
went back to the Payless Drug Store; (Kids, remember that pink “rat tail” comb
Dad had? he got it at Payless when I worked there).
John also got me a night
job at the cannery, standing over a peach sorting conveyor belt...because who
doesn’t work two 8 hour jobs every day? (and I had all that experience in the pickle factory!) I only did that for about a week.
At the end of the summer we moved to San Francisco(142 Lake St.) where
John started dental school at UOP and I began teaching school.

In 1968 I had a
hard time getting a teaching job in California. A declining birth rate meant
declining enrollments and many school closures. I was lucky to get a job teaching
English at Woodrow Wilson Jr. High in Oakland. (I did apply and interview with
Mt Diablo…they assured me that the new BART train would soon be up and running
to ease my possible commute…luckily I didn’t get hired…since BART didn’t start
running for 6 more years.)
First, regarding teaching at WWJH. My only previous teaching experience was
student teaching…I had done mine at Highland High in Salt Lake City. This
school was located up on the “benches” near the University of Utah. I taught five periods of college prep
sophomores…about as far from an “inner city” school as you could get. The only
unit I remember teaching was on Shakespeare’s Julius Cesar, and my only
discipline problem was one boy who didn’t always raise his hand to talk…oh, and
I think a couple of kids chewed gum…
Flash forward to WWJH…this was the school Huey Newton
(founder of the Black Panthers) had gone to. There were only 12 white
students…just as well; I could never be accused of favoritism!
Looking back, I wonder that they hired me…maybe no one else
wanted to teach at that school…or maybe the administrators were really tired of
all the liberal Berkeley grads who wanted to smoke pot in the teachers’
lounge…who knows.
Anyway, it was with great trepidation that I took on that
job.
When I interviewed for the job they saw that my minor was
French, but they wouldn’t hire me to teach French as it wasn’t a “teaching
minor”...just as well.
But imagine my surprise when I showed up at the 30’s era
building on 48th and Telegraph to find out I was teaching English and one
period of Art! I mean, I like art, but hadn’t taken it since 7th grade!
But I figured I could just do what the two full time art
teachers were doing, right? But one of them was another new teacher…a white guy
from San Francisco who didn’t know what he was doing, and the other was a nice
black lady who had been teaching elementary school for 15 years and was on the
verge of a nervous breakdown dealing with jr high kids!
So I fell back on my remembrances of my 7th grade
art class and various girl scout projects…like: scribble all over a piece of
white paper, color in each section heavily with a variety of crayons, paint
over all this with black india ink, and finally scratch a picture into the
black surface revealing the rainbow hues beneath!
Don’t scoff…it kept my students busy for most of a week…and
I noticed the other two teachers were doing my project with their kids too!
(*I feel a little bad identifying people by race…but it was
very much an issue then…this was a very “black” school…white teachers were
definitely the outsiders…a very new and intimidating situation for me…look up
what was going on in the US in 1968 to get a feeling for what I was dealing with…race riots,
protests against war...etc.)
Woodrow Wilson Jr. High
In my English classes I kept getting
kids added to my class throughout the year…not kids moving into the neighborhood…these
were kids getting kicked out of Mr. Cheatham’s class…a tough disciplinarian who
didn’t put up with any variance from his rules. It was a shock for me to find
out that kids didn’t just sit quietly and do their work and also that many in the
seventh grade could not read!
But I adjusted and figured out how
to deal with my crazy new reality since it was my responsibility to put John
through dental school for the good of our future family!

so my first 2 comments didn't post. anyway...this was fun to read. thanks for taking that job "for the good of the family". we appreciate it! also, where is dad's pink rat tail comb?
ReplyDeleteAlas! I think it finally disappeared a couple of years ago? (Maybe since he didn't need much "hair combing" he lost track of it?) It used to be in that leather travel kit...anyone seen it?
ReplyDeleteWhat a unique time in the history of America, and you and Dad were right in the middle of it! So cool mom. Thanks for puttign Dad through Dental School!
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